A Third Viewpoint

A close friend told me the following:

Thinking about others is almost second nature to you but there's a voice is shouting "what about me?me!me!me?" This should be the right time for you to stop all that and cut yourself some slack. You've been wanting people to think good of you for too long already. Relax lah, be yourself.

Am i doing what he said?
Wanting acceptance and all?
hahs.
If it's true, loser sia aku...