Second-Hand Experience

If you don't text, they assume you're not interested. Or even worse, they accuse you for not being there for them. When you do text but not too often, they say you've got someone else in mind and they're only second choice. Or even worse, they say you treat them like some kind of toy you play with only when you're bored. But when you text them daily or show care & concern towards their general well-being, they say you're obsessive or an arduous character to content with. Or even worse, they label you as a desperate & irksome little boy.

These are the kind of experiences that make me think too much on whether i should pursue my interests. Be it my personal experiences or anyone else's. The very same thing that makes choosing being singular over "blissfully" attached much more appealing.

On a side note, eikkz's words are most probably going to ring true regarding the rendezvous time.